iDOL kita DAD

Guess who’s this? Yeah you’re right! 

He is my dad, my IDOL. 

It’s a photo of him last provincial election.

I love my father as the stars - he's a bright shining example 

and a happy twinkling in my heart. 

 ~Terri Guillemets

You may have thought I didn't see,
Or that I hadn't heard,
Life lessons that you taught to me,
But I got every word.

Perhaps you thought I missed it all,
And that we'd grow apart,
But Dad, I picked up everything,
It's written on my heart.

Without you, Dad, I wouldn't be
The woman I am today;
You built a strong foundation
No one can take away.

I've grown up with your values,
And I'm very glad I did;
So here's to you, dear father,
From your forever grateful kid.

TAKING CHANVES

Give me all your worries, shortcomings, and fears because I tenderly and personally care for you. Don’t settle for mere survival. I came to take you out of your comfort zone into my abundant life. I’ll show you the path of life. You can’t begin to imagine all of the incredible things I’ve prepared for you because you love me.

- from 1 Peter 5:7; John 10:10; Psalm 16:11; 1 Corinthians 2:9

Taking the risk can be scary. You don’t know if you’ll achieve your goal or fall flat on you’re your face. Most of us have had that privilege of doing both-maybe you’ve had more experience in the face-plant category. But whatever the outcome, these kinds of experience help us grow. “Crash and burns” are not as scary as the “what if’s” never knowing what would been. The great thing about taking a risk is that you might make it! You might accomplish something you once thought impossible, and wow! What a feeling. And if you don’t make for the first time, you always can try again. But if you never try, you’ll never know. If you don’t take a chance, you could miss out on something wonderful. Life has so much to offer, but sometimes you’ve got to be willing to step out of your comfort zone and step into unknown, who knows what you’ll discover? Who knows where it might lead? What ever it is, you’ll experience something new-sometimes all your own, and my guess is, you’ll grow.

I choose to be with him, because I know he will be the best guy I've known. Well dream came true he's the guy I've waited for. Maybe were too childish for each other but it is the best part of being in a relationship with him, we choose to be like this because we feels that everything we do has a reason, and will be the reason to become a better, to become the most sparkling couple. If were not meant to be, maybe someday the stars will tell how great I’ am on choosing him to be a part of my life. For me it’s not about forever and ends with a happily ever after, but it’s the life we enjoy and the moments we've shared of and that moment will end to a forever.

JEALOUS

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Jealous of the girl who caught your eye
One of my darker days
When you looked at her where was I?
Shoulda been in her place
Here I am
All alone imagining what might have been
What could have been
If I had been there

[Chorus:]
Jealous of the one who'se arms are around you
If she's keeping you satisfied
Jealous of the one who finally found you
Made your sun and your stars collide
La la la la la la la
She's a very very lucky girl
La la la la la la la

Jealous of the one who won your heart
They say it's a perfect match
She's gonna get to be where you are
And I don't get better than that
She'll say you're fine
Whisper words I wish were mine
And they might have been
If I had been there

[Repeat Chorus]

You know I'd fight the good fight
If I thought I'd change your mind
But if she makes you happy
I would leave that dream behind
Man, she better treat you right
And give you everything
Cause at the moment she doesn't
I'll be waiting in the wings

[Repeat Chorus]

La la la la la la la
She's a very very lucky girl 

hindi nmn kmi break gusto ko lng kantahin to kasi nag selos lng ako saglit lng nmn hhahaha KORNIIIII!!

PARA SAU PA DIN TO hahaha ..

I may burn out like a candle and
I may pass away
I may fall just like a shooting star
my heart will stay
I`ll be yours until forever,
forever I`ll be true to the promise
I have made from the day that
I found you
forever your in my heart
even if were apart

I say, forever I`ll be yours
forever I love you
I say, forever I`ll be yours
forever I love you
my love will never fade away
even if I`ll die and
I will love you until the end of time
even without your smile

So help me please I beg you
don`t walk away I need you
just stay with me and be by my side
take my hand and will work it out

Unti,l forever I`ll be yours
forever I love you
I say, forever I`ll be yours
forever I`ll be true
my love will never fade away
even if I`ll die and
I will love you until the end of time
even without your smile

So help me please I beg you
to stay....

---cute nia talaga hahahaha

friends :)

Friends will tell you the truth, even when it's hurts. They will hold your hand and stay close when you're afraid. Friends always seem to have a shoulder available for tears-and some tissue handy. They listen well and give timely hugs. Friends will walk through the storms of life and help you look for the rainbows. With a friend, even the everyday things become memories. Whether you've known your friends for years or are just beginning the relationship, he or she seems to understand. It doesn't matter if your a circle of friends is large or small-each friend is a gift from God.A friend loves you as you are and wants to know you better. And chances are you want to get to know your better too. We all have the opportunity to be a friend to many, and we'll make many new friends over the course of a lifetime. But if you could have only one friend, what an amazing friend we have in Jesus.

"A true friend doesn't what I've done or where I've been;

there's an unconditional commitment that will never die."

-Michael M. Smith

TEN TIPS FOR YOU :)

TEN TIPS FOR COMMUNICATION THAT CAN HELP YOU WHEN YOU’RE EXPERIENCING CONFLICT IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP

1. Learn to express your feelings and frustrations honestly, but without accusing or attacking the other person (Proverbs 11:9)

2. Choose words, expressions, and a tone of voice that are kin and gentle. Don’t use speech that could easily offend or spark an argument (Proverbs 15:1)

3. Don’t exaggerate, distort, or stretch the truth. Avoid extreme word like never and always (Ephesians 4:5)

4. Give actual and specific examples. If necessary, make notes before you communicate. Stay away from generalities.

5. Commit yourself to seeking solutions instead of airing your grievances. Getting even isn’t the goal-you want to get things resolved (Romans 12:17-21)

6. Listen to what the other person is saying, feeling, and needing. Try to detect his or her underlying concerns (James 1:19)

7. Refuse to indulge bitterness, anger, withdrawal, or argument. Though these emotions are normal, indulging them is sin. (Ephesians 4:26)

8. Don’t hesitate to acknowledge your own failure, and be quick to forgive the other person. Make sure you don’t hold a grudge (Luke 17:3-4)

9. Keep talking and asking questions until you are sure that you both understand clearly what the other is saying and feeling. Encourage each other as you press toward a solution (Romans 14:19)

10. Train your mouth and heart until you can say the right thing at the right time in the right way for the right reasons!


***from the book of boy meets girl by Joshua Harish


REMEMBER, CONFLICT IS NOT NECESSARILY A BAD THING. AND DON’T BE SURPRISED IF YOU EXPERIENCE IT. IT’S A SIGN THAT YOU’RE REALLY GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER. DON’T RUN FROM IT; INSTEAD, ASK GOD’S HELP TO HUMBLY AND LOVINGLY RESOLVE IT.

LIFE TOGETHER

REPOST :

One fine day, an old couple around the age of 70, walks into a lawyer's office.

Apparently, they are there to file a divorce.

Lawyer was very puzzled, after having a chat with them, he got their story....

This couple had been quarreling all their 40 over yrs of marriage nothing ever seems to go right.

They hang on because of their children, afraid that it might affect their up-bringing. Now, all their children have already grown up, have their own family, there's nothing else the old couple have to worry about, all they wanted is to lead their own life free from all these years of unhappiness from their marriage, so both agree on a divorce....

Lawyer was having a hard time trying to get the papers done, because he felt that after 40 yrs of marriage at the age of 70, he couldnt understand why the old couple would still want a divorce..

While they were signing the papers, the wife told the husband..

"I really love u, but i really cant carry on anymore, I'm sorry.."

"Its o.k, i understand.." said the husband. Lookin at this, the lawyer suggested a dinner together, just 3 of them,wife thought, why not, since they are still gonna be friends..

At the dining table, there was a silence of awkardness.

The first dish was roasted chicken, immediately, the old man took the drumstick for the old lady.."take this, its your favourite.."

Looking at this, the lawyer thought maybe theres still a chance, but the wife was frowning when she answer.."

This is always the problem, you always think so highly of yourself, never thought about how I feel, dont you know that i hate drumsticks?"

Little did she know that, over the years, the husband have been trying all ways to please her, little did she know that drumsticks was the husband's favourite. Little did he know that she never thought he understand her at all, little did he know that she hates drummsticks even though all he wants is the best for her.

That night, both of them couldnt sleep, toss and turn, toss and turn...after hours, the old man couldnt take it anymore, he knows that he still loves her, and he cant carry on life without her, he wants her back, he wants to tell her, he is sorry, he wanted to tell her "i love you"...

He picks up the phone, starting dialing her number....ringing never stops..he never stop dialing....

On the other side, she was sad, she couldn’t understand how come after all these years, he still doesnt understand her at all, she loves him a lot, but she just cant take it anymore....phone's ringing, she refuses to answer knowing that its him..."whats the point of talking now that its over...i have ask for it and now i wanna keep it this way, if not i will lose face.."she thought...still ringing...she have decided to pull out the cord...

Little did she remember, he have heart problems...

The next day, she received news that he had passed away...she rushed down to his apartment, saw his body, lying on the couch still holding on to the phone...he had a heart attack when he was still trying to get through her phone line....

As sad as she could be...she will have to clear his belongings...when she was looking thru the drawers, she saw this insurance policy, dated from the day they got married, with the beneficiary being her... And together in those file, there was this note...

"To my dearest wife, by the time you're reading this, I'm sure I'm no longer around, I bought this policy for you, though the amount is only $100k, I hope it will be able to help me continue my promise that i have made when we got married, I might not be around anymore, I want this amount of money to continue taking care of you, just like the way I will if I could have live longer. I want you to know Iwill always be around, by your side... I love you"

Tears flowed like river......

"When you love someone, let them know... You never know what will happen the next minute.... Learn to build a life together.. Learn to love each other. For who they are.. not what

they are..."

TIME WILL TELL

Once upon a time there was an island where all the feelings lived; happiness, sadness, knowledge, and all the others, including love.

One day it was announced to all of the feelings that the island was going to sink to the bottom of the ocean. So all the feelings prepared their boats to leave. Love was the only one that stayed. She wanted to preserve the island paradise until the last possible moment. When the island was almost totally under, Love decided it was time to leave. She began looking for someone to ask for help.

Just then Richness was passing by in a grand boat. Love asked, "Richness, Can I come with you on your boat?"
Richness answered, " I'm sorry, but there is a lot of silver and gold on my boat and there would be no room for you anywhere."
Then Love decided to ask Vanity for help who was passing in a beautiful vessel.
Love cried out, "Vanity, help me please."

"I can't help you", Vanity said, "You are all wet and will damage my beautiful boat."
Next, Love saw Sadness passing by.
Love said, "Sadness, please let me go with you."
Sadness answered, "Love, I'm sorry, but, I just need to be alone now."
Then, Love saw Happiness.

Love cried out, " Happiness, please take me with you."
But Happiness was so overjoyed that he didn't hear Love calling to him. Love began to cry.

Then, she heard a voice say, "Come Love, I will take you with me." It was an elder. Love felt so blessed and overjoyed that she forgot to ask the elder his name. When they arrived on land the elder went on his way. Love realized how much she owed the elder.

Love then found Knowledge and asked, "Who was it that helped me?"
"It was Time", Knowledge answered.
"But why did Time help me when no one else would?", Love asked.

Knowledge smiled and with deep wisdom and sincerity, answered,
"Because only Time is capable of understanding how great Love is."

MY GOOD FRIENDS :))

A good friend is someone you enjoy spending time with.



The best thing about them is when you share your problems with them they are always there to listen and give you the best advice that they can give (kahit na dramahan pa yan). They will never give up on you (kahit na anung mangyari) . They will just have some fun and give you a good laugh (kahit na sumakita ng tiyan mo sa kakatawa).


But most of all a REAL friend should love you. For that, you will have a woderful friendship forever.


I LOVE MY "S.E FRIENDS, K' FRIENDS & TRUE PRENDS" till death do us part ;]]]